Indlela yoKusebenza kunye nokuThatha inyathelo loMthetho kuBundlobongela baseKhaya

UbuNdlobongela baseKhaya – Indlela Yokujongana Nabo kwaye Uthabathe Inyathelo Lomthetho. Ukuba ulixhoba lobundlobongela basekhaya, nanga amanyathelo asemthethweni ekufuneka uwathathe ukuze ulondoloze ukhuseleko lwakho kwaye ufumane ukhuseleko kunye nobulungisa obufaneleyo.

Zenzeka Ngaziphi Iindlela Ubundlobongela Basekhaya?

Ngokwengcaciso, “ugonyamelo lwasekhaya” lubhekisela kugonyamelo olwenziwa lilungu lentsapho okanye iqabane elisondeleyo komnye, njengokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana okanye ukuxhatshazwa liqabane. Luhlobo lokungcungcuthekisa kwaye lunokubandakanya ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwasemoyeni, okanye ngokwemali, kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo.

Yintoni Ebangela Omnye Umntu Wonzakele?

Ubundlobongela basekhaya bunokuchazwa njengomzekelo wokuziphatha kulo naluphi na ulwalamano olusetyenziselwa ukufumana okanye ukugcina amandla kunye nokulawula iqabane elisondeleyo. Impatho-gadalala zizenzo zomzimba, ngokwesondo, ngokweemvakalelo, ezoqoqosho okanye ngokwasengqondweni okanye izoyikiso zezenzo eziphembelela omnye umntu. Oku kunokuqondwa njengokuthetha ukuba nawaphi na amazwi okanye izenzo umntu wesini esinye anokuthi azenze ngokuchasene neqabane lakhe lesini esahlukileyo okanye esifana neso esidala ukwenzakala komnye umntu bubundlobongela basekhaya.

Ixhoba loBundlobongela baseKhaya

Ngaphambili, ugonyamelo lwasekhaya lwalusetyenziswa yaye kwakuqondwa ukuba luthetha ukwenzakala ngokwasemzimbeni kwendoda emfazini. Oku kuye kwavela ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye ngoku ubundlobongela basekhaya bubizwa ngokuchanekileyo njengobundlobongela obusekelwe kwisini. Oku kungenxa yokuba amadoda nawo ayakwazi ukuba ngamaxhoba odushe lwasekhaya.

Ngokweenkcukacha-manani zoBundlobongela baseKhaya kuZwelonke, malunga nom-1 kwaba-4 kwabasetyhini kunye ne-1 kwindoda yesi-7 engaphezulu kweminyaka eyi-18 iye yalixhoba lobundlobongela basekhaya, kwaye phantse i-50% yesini sobabini siye safumana uhlobo oluthile lohlaselo lwasengqondweni lwasekhaya.

Ngelixa ubundlobongela basekhaya buhlala busenzeka kubudlelwane obusondeleyo (emtshatweni nasebudlelwaneni), iseludushe lwasekhaya ukuba lwenzeka phakathi kwabazali, abantwana, emsebenzini kunye nobunye ubudlelwane obunjalo. Kwakhona, ugonyamelo lwasekhaya alupheleliselwanga nje ekwenzenikaliswa ngokwasemzimbeni. Amazwi awenzakalisayo nahlabayo, ukusoyikisa, izenzo ezichaphazela nokuba ngummi kabani nemeko yezoqoqosho zonke zigqalwa njengogonyamelo lwasekhaya.

Zeziphi Iindidi zokuxhatshazwa kubundlobongela basekhaya

Iintlobo zempatho-gadalala ezibangwa bubundlobongela basekhaya azibandakanyi ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni kuphela kodwa zikwaquka nokuphathwa gadalala ngokwasemoyeni (ukubizwa ngamagama, ukuhlaziswa, ukoyikiswa, ukungxola, ukungathethisani, njl njl), ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo (ukunyanzela iqabane ukuba libelane ngesondo xa lingafuni/lingafuni. kwimood/ukungaphilanga, ukwenzakalisa iqabane ngokwalo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo njl njl ), ukuxhatshazwa kwezobuchwepheshe (ukugqekeza kwifowuni yeqabane/iakhawunti ye-imeyile, ukusebenzisa izixhobo zokulandela umkhondo kwifowuni yeqabane, isithuthi njl. njl.), ukuxhatshazwa ngokwezemali (ukuxhatshazwa kweqabane emsebenzini kunye ingakumbi ngeeyure zomsebenzi, ukonakalisa amanqaku etyala leqabane njl), ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwemeko yokufudukela kwelinye ilizwe (ukonakalisa amaphepha okufudukela kwelinye iqabane, ukoyikisa ngokwenzakalisa usapho lweqabane emva ekhaya njl njl).

Ezi ntlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuxhatshazwa zibalulekile ukuba ziqatshelwe kuba umzekelo, kwi-United Arab Emirates eyindawo enkulu yamaSilamsi eyenziwe kwi-federation ye-emirates ezisixhenxe, ezibandakanya i-Abu Dhabi (ikomkhulu), i-Ajman, i-Dubai, i-Fujairah, i-Ras Al Khaimah. , U-Sharjah kunye no-Umm Al Quwain, abafazi kunye namantombazana bahlala bexhatshazwa ngokuxhaphazwa kwasekhaya ngenxa yezoqoqosho, intlalo, inkcubeko kunye nenkolo yamadoda kummandla. Kubalulekile ukuba amaxhoba ayiqonde Imithetho ye-UAE malunga nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, ezithintela ukuba neentlobano zesini ezingafunwayo, izicelo zokwabelana ngesondo, kunye nokunye ukuthetha okanye ukuziphatha ngendlela ebonisa ukuba neentlobano zesini.

Ukunceda kunye nokukhusela abasetyhini kunye nabantwana kulo mmandla, ngo-2019, i-UAE yaphehlelela uMgaqo-nkqubo woKhuseleko loSapho ochaza usapho okanye ubundlobongela basekhaya njengalo naluphi na ukuxhatshazwa, ubundlobongela okanye isoyikiso esenziwe lilungu losapho ngokuchasene nalo naliphi na ilungu losapho okanye umntu ongaphezulu kogcino lwakhe, ulawulo, igunya okanye uxanduva, okukhokelela kukwenzakala ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwasengqondweni. Okubalulekileyo, i isohlwayo sobundlobongela basekhaya e-UAE kuba izenzo ezinjalo zinokuba nzima. Lo mgaqo-nkqubo ukhankanya iindlela ezintandathu zobundlobongela basekhaya. Ngala: ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni, ukuthukwa, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasengqondweni/ngokwengqondo, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwezoqoqosho/ngokwemali, nokungakhathali.

Ukuba ulixhoba lobundlobongela basekhaya, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba awuwedwa kwaye kukho iindlela ezisemthethweni onokukhetha kuzo.

Ngaba sikho isizathu sokuba abantu baxhaphazane?

Amadoda axhaphazayo (kunye nabasetyhini) aphuma kuzo zonke iindlela zobomi kwaye athanda ukuba nomona, ukulawula kunye nokucaphuka lula. Amadoda amaninzi axhaphazayo akholelwa ekubeni amabhinqa angaphantsi, akholelwa ukuba amadoda enzelwe ukongamela nokulawula abasetyhini kwaye aya kuhlala ekhanyela ukuba uxhatshazo luyenzeka okanye bayalunciphisa kwaye bahlala begxeka iqabane labo ngoxhatshazo. 

Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala kunye neziyobisi, ukwenzakala kwasebuntwaneni kunye nabadala, umsindo, ingqondo kunye neminye imiba yobuntu idla ngokuba yimiba yokuxhatshazwa. Abasetyhini (kunye namadoda) badla ngokuhlala nabaxhaphazi babo ngenxa yehlazo, ukungazithembi, ukoyika ubomi babo, uloyiko lokuphulukana nabantwana babo okanye ukwenzakala kusapho lwabo olusondeleyo kunye nabahlobo kwaye uninzi lukholelwa ukuba abanako ukuzenzela ngokwabo.

Abanye abasetyhini abaxhatshaziweyo bakholelwa ekubeni ukuxhatshazwa lityala labo, bacinga ukuba banokuluphelisa uxhatshazo olo ukuba benza ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Abanye abanakuvuma ukuba bayaxhatshazwa abasetyhini ngelixa abanye beziva becinezelekile ukuba bahlale kubudlelwane.

Ke ngoko, akukho sizathu saneleyo sokuqhubeka nokuhlala kubudlelwane obuxhaphazayo! Amanyathelo okuqala abandakanya ukuvuma ukuba uxhatshazo luyenzeka, ukuba izenzo kunye namazwi ahlukumezayo kwaye akufanele aqhubeke eyenzeka, umxhaphazi akasafuni ukukhuselwa kunye nokufikelela kuncedo lwezonyango, ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasentlalweni. Ukuba uyaxhatshazwa, khumbula:

• Awunakubekwa tyala ngokubethwa okanye ukuphathwa kakubi!
• Awunguye unobangela wokuziphatha kakubi kweqabane lakho!
• Ufanelwe yimbeko!
• Ufanelwe bubomi obukhuselekileyo nobonwabisayo!
• Abantwana bakho bafanelwe bubomi obukhuselekileyo nobonwabisayo!
• Awukho wedwa!

Kukho abantu abalindele ukunceda, kwaye, zininzi izibonelelo ezifumanekayo kubafazi abaxhatshaziweyo nababethwayo, kubandakanywa neentambo ezishushu, iindawo zokuhlala, iinkonzo zomthetho, kunye nokukhathalela abantwana. Qala ngokufikelela!

Yintoni uPhatho gadalala ngengqondo nangokweemvakalelo kwaye uQinisekisa njani ukuxhaphazwa ngengqondo?

Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasengqondweni nangokweemvakalelo kunokuthatha iindlela ezininzi. Isenokuba yiyo nantoni na ukusuka kubizo-magama kunye nokubeka phantsi ukuya kwiindlela ezichuliweyo zokukhohlisa nokulawula. Ezinye iindlela eziqhelekileyo zokuxhatshazwa kwengqondo kunye neemvakalelo ziquka:

• Ukukhanya kwegesi, okuhlala kukhokelela ekubeni ixhoba lithandabuze inkumbulo yalo, imbono, kunye nengqondo
• Ukwenza iintetho ezijongela phantsi okanye ezijongela phantsi ixhoba
• Ukwahlula ixhoba kusapho nezihlobo
• Ukulawula iimali zexhoba okanye ukunciphisa ukufikelela kwabo emalini
• Ukwala ukuvumela ixhoba ukuba lisebenze okanye lonakalise umsebenzi walo
• Ukugrogrisa ngokwenzakalisa ixhoba, usapho lwabo, okanye izilwanyana zabo zasekhaya
• Ngokwenene ukwenzakalisa ixhoba ngokwasemzimbeni

Ukungqina ukuxhatshazwa ngengqondo, kuya kufuneka unikezele ngamaxwebhu afana neerekhodi zesibhedlele, iingxelo zonyango, iingxelo zamapolisa, okanye imiyalelo yokuthintela. Ungakwazi kwakhona ukubonelela ngobungqina obuvela kumangqina anokuthi angqine ukuziphatha kakubi.

Ungabubhala njani ubuNdlobongela baseKhaya kunye nempatho-gadalala kwaye uthathe inyathelo elisemthethweni ngokuchasene neLungu loSapho okanye uMlingane wakho?

Ukuba ukhe walixhoba logonyamelo lwasekhaya, zininzi izinto onokuzithabatha ukuze uzikhusele wena nentsapho yakho. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukubhala ukuxhatshazwa. Oku kunokwenziwa ngokugcina ijenali yezehlo, ukufota imifanekiso yokwenzakala, kunye nokugcina naluphi na unxibelelwano (umz. iitekisi, ii-imeyile, imiyalezo yemidiya yoluntu) evela kumxhaphazi. La maxwebhu angabalulekile ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuthatha amanyathelo asemthethweni ngakumxhaphazi lowo wakho.

Kukho inani leendlela ezahlukeneyo zomthetho ezifumanekayo kumaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya e-UAE, kubandakanya ukufaka isigunyaziso sokhuseleko kunye nokufaka uqhawulo-mtshato.

Ndingenza ntoni ukuze ndihlale ndikhuselekile emva kobudlelwane obuxhaphazayo okanye obunobundlobongela?

Ukuba ubunobudlelwane obuxhaphazayo okanye obunogonyamelo, kubalulekile ukuba uthathe amanyathelo okuzikhusela wena nosapho lwakho. La manyathelo angaquka:

• Ukufaka isicelo soqhawulo-mtshato (ukuba utshatile)
• Ukufudukela kwindawo ekhuselekileyo, njengendawo yokuhlala yobundlobongela basekhaya okanye indlu yomhlobo okanye yelungu losapho
• Ukutshintsha inombolo yefowuni kunye nedilesi ye-imeyile
• Ukuxelela umqeshi wakho ngoxhatshazo olo kwaye umcele ukuba agcine idilesi yakho kunye nenombolo yakho yomnxeba iyimfihlo
• Ukuxelela isikolo somntwana wakho ngoxhatshazo nokubacela ukuba bagcine idilesi yakho kunye nenombolo yakho yomnxeba iyimfihlo
• Ukuvula iakhawunti entsha yebhanki egameni lakho kuphela
• Ukufumana umyalelo wesithintelo ngakumxhaphazi 
• Ukuxela uxhatshazo emapoliseni
• Ukufuna ingcebiso yokujongana nefuthe leemvakalelo zoxhatshazo olo

Ukufumana uncedo kubundlobongela basekhaya kunye nokuxhatshazwa eDubai okanye eUAE, iNkonzo yoNcedo loNcedo: https://www.dfwac.ae/helpline

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Ugonyamelo lwasekhaya yingxaki enzulu echaphazela amaxhoba awo onke ubudala, amadoda naziimvelaphi. Ukuba ulixhoba lobundlobongela basekhaya, kubalulekile ukufuna uncedo.