Momwe Mungathanirane ndi Kutsata Malamulo Okhudza Nkhanza Zapakhomo

Nkhanza Zapakhomo - Momwe Mungathanirane Nazo Ndi Kuchita Mwalamulo. Ngati ndinu wochitiridwa nkhanza zapakhomo, nazi njira zamalamulo zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti muteteze chitetezo chanu ndikupeza chitetezo ndi chilungamo choyenera.

Kodi Nkhanza Zapakhomo Zimachitika Motani?

Mwa kutanthauzira, “chiwawa cha m’banja” chimatanthauza chiwawa chimene wachibale kapena mnzake wapamtima amachitira mnzake, monga kuchitira nkhanza ana kapena kuzunza mwamuna kapena mkazi. Uwu ndi mtundu wina wankhanza ndipo ungaphatikizepo nkhanza zakuthupi, zamalingaliro, kapena zachuma, komanso nkhanza zogonana.

Nchiyani Chimachititsa Munthu Winayo Kuvulazidwa?

Nkhanza za m'banja zingatanthauzidwe ngati khalidwe mu ubale uliwonse womwe umagwiritsidwa ntchito kupeza kapena kusunga mphamvu ndi kulamulira pa bwenzi lapamtima. Nkhanza ndi zochita za thupi, kugonana, maganizo, chuma kapena maganizo kapena kuopseza zochita zomwe zimakhudza munthu wina. Izi zitha kumveka kuti zikutanthauza kuti mawu kapena zochita zilizonse zomwe munthu wogonana naye angachite motsutsana ndi bwenzi lake losiyana kapena losiyana kapenanso lomwe limapweteketsa mnzakeyo ndi nkhanza zapakhomo.

Nkhanza Zapakhomo Zakuthupi

Poyamba, nkhanza zapakhomo zinkagwiritsidwa ntchito ndipo zinkamveka kuti zimatanthauza kuvulaza mwamuna kwa mkazi. Izi zasintha pakapita nthawi ndipo tsopano nkhanza za m’banja zimatchedwa nkhanza zotengera jenda. Izi zili choncho chifukwa amuna nawonso amatha kuchitiridwa nkhanza zapakhomo.

Malinga ndi ziwerengero za National Domestic Violence, pafupifupi 1 mwa amayi anayi aliwonse ndi 4 mwa amuna 1 azaka zopitilira 7 adachitiridwapo nkhanza zapakhomo, ndipo pafupifupi 18% ya amuna ndi akazi adakumanapo ndi vuto linalake la m'banja.

Ngakhale kuti nkhanza za m’banja zimachitika nthawi zambiri m’zibwenzi (ukwati ndi pachibwenzi), ukadali nkhanza za m’banja ngati zimachitika pakati pa makolo, ana, kuntchito ndi maubwenzi ena otere. Ndiponso, nkhanza za m’banja sizimangotanthauza kuvulazana. Mawu opweteka ndi opweteka, kuopseza, zochita zowononga ngakhale kukhala nzika ya munthu ndi mkhalidwe wake wachuma zonse zimalingaliridwa kukhala nkhanza zapabanja.

Ndi Mitundu Yanji Ya Nkhanza Pa Nkhanza Zapakhomo

Mitundu ya nkhanza zomwe zimadza chifukwa cha nkhanza za m'banja zimaphatikizanso nkhanza zakuthupi komanso kuzunzidwa m'maganizo (kutchula mayina, kuchitiridwa manyazi, kuopsezedwa, kufuula, kusayankhulana ndi zina zotero), nkhanza zogonana (kukakamiza wokondedwa kuchita zogonana pamene sakufuna kapena sakufuna. kukhumudwa, kuvulaza mnzako panthawi yogonana ndi zina), nkhanza zaukadaulo (kubera maakaunti a foni/maimelo a mnzanu, kugwiritsa ntchito zida zolondolera foni ya mnzanu, galimoto ndi zina), nkhanza zachuma (kuvutitsa mnzanu kuntchito komanso makamaka nthawi yogwira ntchito, kuwononga ngongole za mnzanu ndi zina), nkhanza zokhudzana ndi anthu othawa kwawo (kuwononga mapepala othawa kwawo, kuwopseza kuvulaza banja la mnzanu kunyumba ndi zina).

Mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya nkhanzazi ndiyofunika kudziwa chifukwa mwachitsanzo, ku United Arab Emirates komwe kuli dera lalikulu lachisilamu lomwe limapangidwa kuchokera ku bungwe la emirates asanu ndi awiri, lopangidwa ndi Abu Dhabi (likulu), Ajman, Dubai, Fujairah, Ras Al Khaimah. , Sharjah ndi Umm Al Quwain, amayi ndi atsikana nthawi zambiri amakonda kuzunzidwa m'banja chifukwa cha kukwera kwachuma, chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe ndi chipembedzo cha amuna m'deralo. Ndikofunikira kuti ozunzidwa amvetsetse Malamulo a UAE okhudza nkhanza zogonana, zomwe zimaletsa zilakolako zosayenera zogonana, zopempha kuti azigonana ndi munthu wina, zolankhula kapena kuchita zinthu zina zosonyeza kugonana.

Pofuna kuthandiza ndi kuteteza amayi ndi ana m'derali, mu 2019, UAE idakhazikitsa Ndondomeko Yoteteza Banja yomwe imatanthauzira nkhanza za m'banja kapena zapakhomo ngati nkhanza zilizonse, nkhanza kapena kuopseza komwe wachibale amachitira wachibale wina aliyense kapena munthu woposa momwe amamulera, ulamuliro, ulamuliro kapena udindo, zomwe zimabweretsa kuvulaza thupi kapena maganizo. Chofunika kwambiri, ndi chilango cha nkhanza zapakhomo ku UAE pakuti machitidwe otere angakhale ovuta. Ndondomekoyi imatchula mitundu isanu ndi umodzi ya nkhanza za m’banja. Ndi: kuzunzidwa, kutukwanidwa, kuzunzidwa m’maganizo/maganizo, nkhanza zokhudza kugonana, nkhanza zokhudza chuma/zachuma komanso kusasamala.

Ngati ndinu mkhole wa nkhanza za m’banja, m’pofunika kudziŵa kuti simuli nokha komanso kuti pali malamulo amene mungatsatire.

Kodi pali chifukwa chimene anthu amachitirana nkhanza?

Amuna ankhanza (ngakhale akazi) amachokera kumitundu yonse ndipo amakonda kukhala ansanje, olanda komanso okwiya msanga. Amuna ambiri ochitira nkhanza amakhulupirira kuti akazi ndi otsika, amakhulupilira kuti amuna ndi omwe amafuna kulamulira ndi kulamulira akazi ndipo nthawi zambiri amakana kuti nkhanzazo zikuchitika kapena amazichepetsa ndipo nthawi zambiri amadzudzula wokondedwa wawo chifukwa cha nkhanza. 

Kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, kupwetekedwa mtima paubwana ndi akuluakulu, mkwiyo, maganizo ndi umunthu wina nthawi zambiri zimakhala zowawa. Azimayi (ndi amuna) nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi ozunza awo chifukwa cha manyazi, kudzikayikira, kuopa miyoyo yawo, kuopa kutaya ana awo kapena kuvulaza achibale awo apamtima ndi mabwenzi ndipo ambiri amakhulupirira kuti sangathe kuchita okha.

Azimayi ena amene amachitiridwa nkhanza amakhulupirira kuti nkhanzayo ndi vuto lawo, amaganiza kuti akhoza kusiya nkhanzazo ngati angochita zosiyana. Ena sangavomereze kuti amazunzidwa ndi amayi pomwe ena amakakamizika kukhalabe pachibwenzi.

Chifukwa chake, palibe chifukwa chokwanira chopitirizira kukhalabe muubwenzi wankhanza! Njira zoyamba zikuphatikizapo kuvomereza kuti nkhanzazo zikuchitika, kuti zochita ndi mawu ankhanza ndipo siziyenera kupitiriza kuchitika, wozunzidwayo sakufunikanso kutetezedwa ndikufikira chithandizo chamankhwala, maganizo komanso ngakhale chikhalidwe. Ngati mukuzunzidwa, kumbukirani:

• Simuyenera kuimbidwa mlandu chifukwa chomenyedwa kapena kuzunzidwa!
• Inu sindinu amene munayambitsa khalidwe lachipongwe la mnzanuyo!
• Muyenera kukuchitirani ulemu!
• Mukuyenera kukhala ndi moyo wabwino komanso wotetezeka!
• Ana anu ayenera kukhala ndi moyo wabwino komanso wotetezeka!
• Simuli nokha!

Pali anthu omwe akudikirira kuti awathandize, ndipo pali zinthu zambiri zothandiza kwa amayi ozunzidwa ndi omenyedwa, kuphatikiza njira zolumikizirana ndi zovuta, malo ogona, ntchito zamalamulo, ndi chisamaliro cha ana. Yambani ndikufikira!

Kodi Nkhanza Zamaganizo ndi Zamaganizo Ndi Chiyani Ndipo Mungatsimikizire Bwanji Nkhanza Zamaganizo?

Kuzunzidwa m'maganizo ndi m'maganizo kungabwere m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Zitha kukhala chilichonse, kuyambira kutchula mayina ndi kuyika pansi mpaka njira zobisika zakusintha ndi kuwongolera. Mitundu ina yodziwika bwino ya kuzunzidwa m'maganizo ndi m'maganizo ndi monga:

• Gaslighting, yomwe nthawi zambiri imatsogolera wozunzidwayo kukayikira zomwe amakumbukira, kuzindikira, komanso kuchita bwino
• Kupereka ndemanga zonyoza kapena zonyoza za wozunzidwayo
• Kupatula wozunzidwayo kwa achibale ndi mabwenzi
• Kulamulira ndalama za wozunzidwa kapena kuchepetsa mwayi wawo wopeza ndalama
• Kukana kulola wozunzidwayo kugwira ntchito kapena kuwononga ntchito yawo
• Kuwopseza kuvulaza wozunzidwayo, banja lawo, kapena ziweto zawo
• Kwenikweni kuvulaza wozunzidwayo mwakuthupi

Kuti mutsimikizire kuti mukuzunzidwa m'maganizo, muyenera kupereka zikalata monga zolemba zakuchipatala, malipoti azachipatala, malipoti apolisi, kapena zoletsa. Mukhozanso kupereka umboni kuchokera kwa mboni zomwe zingatsimikizire khalidwe lachipongwezo.

Kodi Mungalembe Bwanji Nkhanza Zapakhomo ndi Nkhanza ndi Kuchita Zovomerezeka Kwa Wabanja Lanu Kapena Wokondedwa Wanu?

Ngati munachitiridwapo nkhanza za m’banja, pali zinthu zingapo zimene mungachite kuti mudziteteze nokha ndi banja lanu. Choyamba, ndikofunikira kulemba nkhanza. Izi zitha kuchitika posunga buku la zochitika, kujambula zithunzi za anthu ovulala, ndikusunga mauthenga aliwonse (monga mameseji, maimelo, mauthenga ochezera) kuchokera kwa wozunzayo. Zolemba izi zitha kukhala zofunika kwambiri ngati mwaganiza zomuchitira nkhanza.

Pali njira zingapo zamalamulo zomwe zimapezeka kwa omwe akuchitiridwa nkhanza zapakhomo ku UAE, kuphatikiza kulembetsa chikalata chachitetezo ndikusumira chisudzulo.

Kodi ndingatani kuti ndikhale wotetezeka pambuyo paubwenzi wankhanza kapena wachiwawa?

Ngati munali paubwenzi wankhanza kapena wachiwawa, m’pofunika kuchitapo kanthu kuti mudziteteze nokha ndi banja lanu. Izi zitha kuphatikiza:

• Kulemba chisudzulo (ngati mwakwatiwa)
• Kusamukira kumalo otetezeka, monga malo ochitira nkhanza zapakhomo kapena mnzako kapena nyumba ya wachibale
• Kusintha nambala yanu yafoni ndi imelo adilesi
• Kuuza abwana anu za nkhanzazi ndi kuwapempha kuti asunge adilesi yanu ndi nambala yanu ya foni mwachinsinsi
• Kuuza sukulu ya mwana wanu za nkhanzazo ndi kuwapempha kusunga adilesi yanu ndi nambala yanu ya foni mwachinsinsi
• Kutsegula akaunti yakubanki yatsopano m'dzina lanu lokha
• Kupeza chilolezo choletsa wozunzayo 
• Kukanena za nkhanzazi ku polisi
• Kufunafuna upangiri wothana ndi zovuta zamalingaliro chifukwa cha nkhanza

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Nkhanza za m’banja ndi vuto lalikulu limene limakhudza anthu amisinkhu yonse, amuna kapena akazi, ndiponso azikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana. Ngati mwachitiridwa nkhanza m’banja, m’pofunika kupempha thandizo.